I have trouble playing along to metronome times when they are slow - anything around 40 to 60 beats per minute and I find myself getting hopelessly lost. Is this a common trait or have I got a lot further to go than I think?
Believe it or not, the answer to this is really quite simple, Mason. All you have to do is double the metronome speed so that instead of having the metronome click on the main beat in the bar, you have it on the off beat as well (see example below).
It's exactly the same, but psychologically you haven't got that vast amount of 'empty space' to get lost in. Eventually, as you become more experienced with slower meters, you'll be able to revert to 'one click per bar' again, but for now, this will keep you on track.